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  Havent gone to the kingdom hall in ten years but may have to go back...

  by Joliette in

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  2. experiences

  made a big mistake of talking about being raised as a jehovah's witness to some old friends and family.

  people have told me that i am still a jws even though i've never been baptized.

  i'm in school for social services, dealing with student loan debt, and a lot of other debt.

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  just fine

  You always have choices. You do not need to go back to the Witnesses. If you want to - that is your choice.

  You can go to school to get a new career, you can meet new people by volunteering in your community, you can learn new things about planning for retirement and budgeting. All of it takes effort and you have to want to do them.

  In reading your post it seems you feel like you are missing something in your life and you think the Witnesses are going to fill that void. In my experience looking for someone else to fill a void doesn’t work.
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  If The Jehovah's Witnesses Stole Your Past...Don't Let Them Steal Your Future!

  by The Bethelite in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  yes, many here have lost many years of life due to being infected by this cult like religion.

  for many it is very hard to let go of that life and those wasted years.. of course people need time to heal and this web site is a great place to do that, swap war stories and commiserate.. i was in for over 50 years.

  so of course it will be with me for the rest of my life.

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  just fine

  Everyday I get to choose:

  To be happy

  to eat healthy

  to exercise

  to love my husband

  to love my job

  to enjoy my life

  to not let the JWs have any influence in my life even though I still have family in

  Sometimes I forget that all of those things are choices I make, instead of letting outside conditions make those choices for me.

  That’s how I have dealt with leaving the JWs - I get to choose everything and will never give that up to any person or organization.
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  I have a deep seated hatred for the leadership of the JW Cult

  by mrquik in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i look back on my life & realize all major mistakes fall at the feet of the jw leadership.

  no college, no birthdays, basically no celebrations.

  lived my younger years as an outcast.

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  just fine

  I’ve been out for more than 20 years now. As I head into my fifties the Watchtower organization has zero influence.

  I hold my family firmly responsible for their own actions. They choose to listen to nonsense spewed by idiots. They choose to shun their children/grandchildren. They choose to do the hateful awful things they do. No one is making them do any of it, they choose it, and could choose differently if they wanted to.
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  I have a deep seated hatred for the leadership of the JW Cult

  by mrquik in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i look back on my life & realize all major mistakes fall at the feet of the jw leadership.

  no college, no birthdays, basically no celebrations.

  lived my younger years as an outcast.

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  DOC - that was me too - I was mad at myself for believing and trying to believe for so long.

  I left in my 20’s and was able to recover, go to College, have a career, plan a retirement.

  I lost my family in the process, but it made me stronger. I knew early on that I could only depend on myself and I needed to do whatever I had to do to succeed because there was no safety net.

  I hate that my family believes this nonsense and continues to let other people control them.
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  What Will You Be Doing On New Year’s Eve?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i can’t remember the last time i stayed in on new year’s eve.

  every year we went out and made this date a real party.

  it was a celebration that included a night out, a stay in a hotel , eating, drinking and dancing to live music!.

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  Dinner reservations at my favorite restaurant with the hubby. Don’t know how he pulled off the reservations but I’m excited to go.
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  Smokin' Phizzy !

  by Phizzy in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  as a jw teenager in the 60's i took up smoking.

  i gave up in my early 20's when my new wife and i decided , mistakenly, that it was a good idea to " make a proper go of da troof".

  in all the intervening decades i still enjoyed the smell of a fine cigar.. when i left and became free, i took up smoking again, always fine cigars, and ended up hooked, and smoking ten or more a day.

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  just fine

  When I first left I tried smoking cigarettes and didn’t like it. I was young and was a “beer girl” at a golf course and also a “chew girl” for smokeless tobacco. A couple of times a year I indulge in smokeless tobacco.
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  Will You Take A Covid Vac!

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  yes.

  right now i would like to see how good the vaccine really is.

  i’ve never taken a flu shot and so far, no flu..

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  Yes - I should be able to get it in January.
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  Good News Covid vaccine on the way !

  by RickJones in

  1. social
  2. current

  latest news announcement is that there are two companies that have developed a vaccine for the covid virus which they say they will start being distributing to the public in a matter of weeks.. one comes from a company called moderna (94.5% effective) and the other is from pfizer (90% effective).

  if all things go to plan you could see things return to normal once the majority of the general public is vaccinated by easter of next year.. yoo hoo .

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  It’s a scary time when the government thinks it can tell you what to do in your own home. In public....... sure. In my own home nope, nada, no.

  I hope the vaccine works as well in real world applications as it has in the trial.
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  Venting: Sometimes i absolutely hate my wife

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  don't get me wrong, i do love her.

  but when she goes into cult mode, i freaken hate her.

  i hate the person this pos religion has made her become.

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  just fine

  I’m sorry you are going through this. I can’t imagine trying to deal with the cult mindset in an intimate relationship. My family makes me crazy sometimes and I don’t live anywhere near them.
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  Finding a mate

  by MissMary in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  so here i am 44 yr old divorced and free to remarry jw sister....first time single since i was 19. but guess what no single brothers in my area.

  i’ve tried those stupid jw dating sites and still no luck.

  oh yes there are tons of single brothers, but guess what...they all expect a hot barbie to come running into their life.

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  just fine

  The best advice I have is to love yourself and take care of yourself, that sets the standard for how others will treat you. Get involved in your community and build a life. Don’t make other people responsible for your happiness in a relationship or outside of a relationship.

  Most of the men I know want their significant other to be active, take care of themselves, and have their own interests. I would not ever consider a relationship with a JW.